Last Updated on June 14, 2023
Rehab is like a drug college for young people. I have noticed this time and time again with adolescents and young adults entering rehab. They go to rehab for a marijuana addiction for example and while there they get a crash course in all the different drugs. They obviously don’t learn this from the staff, it is the other clients they learn it from.
While I personally attended rehab in my younger years as well as worked in them as I got older I noticed that young adults all want to be the “worst” addicts. They sit together exchanging war stories, “no man, you don’t understand how bad I was…” each person grinding their teeth itching to tell their own drug story to top the story of their peer.
What is the harm in this, you may ask? From what I have seen the individual that goes in with a marijuana or alcohol dependence, for example, gets made to feel less-than, like they don’t qualify as a “real” addict.
Unfortunately, the relapse rate in the first year is something around 90%. That means that the individual going into rehab for marijuana addiction will be made to feel less then for his/her addiction, will learn the whole gambit of other drugs available, as well as make lots of new connections in the drug world (via peers in rehab), and he/she statistically only has a 10% chance of staying sober. Therefore, on the 90% chance that they DO relapse, they are now well educated about all the other drugs that are out there and, in my experience, will seek them out.
I do not know why professionals in the rehabilitation industry are not doing more to address this problem. If you ask any tech, in any rehab, they will verify what I’m saying. I am not sure how to combat this, separating individuals based on their drug of choice may be a good start.
It also points to why working with a sober companion or sober coach at home can be more beneficial and eliminate, what is in my opinion, unnecessary risk of being exposed to potentially toxic peers.
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